Social media is a brilliant way to stay connected, and it’s a great modern platform for learning and sharing. Some habits can be downright annoying, and we’d all rather see much less of them. From constant selfies to vague cryptic, here are 18 social media habits that drive us all crazy. Could you give it a rest, you lot?
Endless Selfies
Sure, we all love a good selfie, but posting one every hour can get tiresome. We appreciate that it’s great to show your best angles, but overdoing it can come across as self-obsession rather than sharing special moments. No one wants a news feed that’s monopolized by someone’s face, as lovely as it might be.
Cryptic Posts
Posting vague statuses like ‘I can't believe this happened’ without any details leaves everyone guessing and can be worrying. There’s even a term for it nowadays, many are calling it ‘vaguebooking’. If you have news to share, be clear or save it for a private conversation. Don’t give us a cryptic post that screams for attention. It might even have your friends thinking it’s about them, and that’s not good.
Over Tagging
Tagging 50 people in a post that’s not relevant to them clogs up notifications and can be pretty irritating. Surely, it’s better to ask permission if you want to tag people all the time, particularly if it’s a business-related plug. If you have to do it, make sure your tags are relevant to the content to avoid unnecessary alerts or deletions.
Constant Arguing
We all have bad days, but turning your social media into a venting ground for every minor inconvenience can be a downer for your friends. Discussions can get heated, we get it, but don’t go looking for drama on everyone’s posts. In some cases, it can lead to real-life issues, so try balancing complaints with positive posts to keep the vibe upbeat. If you can’t, you’re likely to be blocked.
Oversharing Personal Drama
There’s no right or wrong in social media sharing, but airing every detail of your personal life, from breakups to family feuds, can be uncomfortable for your audience. It’s a bit like being in a room with two people arguing; you don’t know where to put yourself. Some things are better kept private or discussed with close friends offline. We don’t need to see it.
Clickbait Links
Sharing misleading headlines just to get clicks only frustrates your friends and spreads misinformation. It’s not a good thing to do, and you’ll find yourself blacklisted if you keep doing it. Always check the credibility of what you’re sharing and offer a brief explanation. It isn’t difficult.
Excessive Hashtags
#Using #too #many #hashtags #in #a #post can #be #hard #to #read and looks messy. It’s fine if you want to throw a couple in, but you don’t need to put on a hashtag show. Stick to a few relevant hashtags to keep your posts clean and engaging, and consider adding them at the end of the post if there are lots of them. #PointMade
Incessant Event Invites
Social media is great for sending invites to a wide audience, but sending multiple invites to events without checking if people are interested is annoying. Instead, send personalized invites and respect the RSVPs. Don’t keep harassing people, they’ll be in touch if they’re interested.
Bragging Posts
We know social media is a highlight reel, but constantly boasting about achievements or purchases can come across as bragging. Don’t act like you’re a celebrity with the world at your feet. It sounds like you’re arrogant and can make others feel inadequate. Share your successes, but remember to celebrate others’ achievements, too.
Overuse of Filters
If we’ve seen one picture of you with dog ears, we’ve seen 100. Yes, we’ve established that filters can enhance photos, but overdoing makes your images look unrealistic. You don’t need a hazy shade all the time, and you certainly don’t require an oversized pout. Be brave enough to embrace a natural look to keep your photos relatable and authentic.
Fitness Overkill
Just because you’re proud of your new fitness regime doesn’t mean that people want to see every workout angle and meal and drink that you’re consuming. Equally, we don’t need a close-up of your smartwatch with the number of steps you’ve done every day. We get it. You’re working on your health. Bravo. Share your fitness journey in moderation to inspire without overwhelming your audience.
Political Rants
Passionate about politics? That’s great, but you don’t need to talk about politics solely. Constant rants can alienate friends and spark unnecessary arguments, especially if you’re not prepared to consider other perspectives. Share your views respectfully and be open to different perspectives.
Automated Messages
A lot of people might be doing it, but it doesn’t make it right. Using bots to send automatic direct messages, especially for business promotions, feels impersonal and spammy. It doesn’t help that there’s no personalization, which is what people want. Personalize your interactions to build genuine connections.
Constantly Changing Your Relationship Status
We all have ‘that’ person who’s ‘In A Relationship’ on Monday, ‘Single’ on Wednesday, and back to ‘In A Relationship’ by Friday. We don’t need to know your relationship status, and it comes across as being a mark of attention-seeking than anything else. Crack on with your relationship without feeling the need to update the rest of the world.
Engagement Bait
Posts that beg for likes, shares, or comments, such as ‘Like if you agree’ can feel desperate. They serve no purpose whatsoever and deter people from interacting. Instead, create engaging content that naturally encourages interaction. You’ll gain far more social collaboration that way. Type yes if you agree.
Duplicate Content
Some businesses seem to think it’s a winning strategy, but it’s noticed by followers when the same content is posted across multiple platforms. It needs to be tailored to stop it from sounding monotonous. You’ll start to see people dropping off if your content doesn’t engage them.
Ignoring Comments
Celebrities might be guilty of it, but it doesn’t mean you should do it too. Not responding to comments on your posts can make you seem disinterested and simply there for the likes. Engage with your followers by acknowledging their comments and starting conversations. You can’t expect people to comment on yours if you don’t do the same back.
Holiday Spam
Posting every single moment of your vacation can overwhelm your friends’ feeds, and it’s a bit too smug for the average person who’s stuck at work. Highlights are a better idea. That way, you can enjoy your holiday without spending the whole time on social media. It’s not a break otherwise.
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